I Thought You Cared

Category: the Rant Board

Post 1 by beautiful girl (Veteran Zoner) on Thursday, 08-Dec-2016 14:44:31

I thought all of you cared about me. If you do, you have a funny way of showing it. I joined this site to make friends. Not to have you guys turn on me. If you want too be my friend, then be my friend and stick up for me. Don't make me out to be the bad guy please. I have been made the bad guy my whole life. I'm sick and tired of it. So all of you, please stop. My hart is week and I can't take it anymore.

Post 2 by forereel (Just posting.) on Thursday, 08-Dec-2016 14:57:26

But. But.
I'm not sure what is happening with you, or to you.
I've not seen you chatting on publics, nor do you post often?
Now, what is private isn't a Zone group hate, but the folks you chat with maybe?
Just sayin?

Post 3 by sia fan bp (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Thursday, 08-Dec-2016 15:00:44

Oh yeah, don't forget you have me on ignore for a stupid reason. I've tried talking to you. you don't care. :( I'm loving to make friends. but friends don't ignore their other friends do they?

Post 4 by beautiful girl (Veteran Zoner) on Thursday, 08-Dec-2016 15:08:36

For your 411, I took you off ignore.

Post 5 by sia fan bp (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Thursday, 08-Dec-2016 15:10:14

I just noticed. :) yayyy! friends again! yayyyyyyy! yayyyyyyyyyy!
but seriously girl,don't spread the guy's info out. it's bad enough people see you as the bad guy.

Post 6 by Remy (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Thursday, 08-Dec-2016 21:05:10

Beautiful Girl, you can't post on a public forum without receiving a wide range of responses. I won't repeat what I already said on your other post, but suffice it to say, from what I've seen, people are showing you a lot of support. They're just cautioning you not to stoop to the level of the man who broke your heart. Someone who posts personal information for one person who wronged them could potentially do it to another. Would you really want any future partners seeing this and being concerned that they could be next?

Post 7 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Thursday, 08-Dec-2016 21:22:51

exactly.
There are all sorts of people on this site, as there are everywhere; you are not going to have every single person agree with you. If you put something out there, it's open for anyone to comment no matter if they're going to be your friends or not.
If you don't like these sites so much, if they are just hurting you, it's best not to come on and post.
I understand you're hurting, but again, I am only telling it how it is. And yes, I was extremely sensitive when I was younger which some Zone old timers, will remember I'm sure *shudders*. Or better, yet, read back on my board posts. So I do know how it is, that's why I say, just stay away from things or people that upset you.

Post 8 by season (the invisible soul) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 0:11:30

yet another little girl that got her dall taken from her, coming on zone to make a seen... *sigh*

Post 9 by the oracle (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 4:11:40

I actually never read your original post, so I don't know why people hate you.

I can't really comment, but i'm around if you want to talk

Post 10 by Pasco (my ISP would be out of business if it wasn't for this haven I live at) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 4:27:41

Ignore post 8. There is a lot of nasty on here, especially if anyone senses you are easily upset or vulnerable. Asking them to be nice does not work very well as many others have learned. The best way to have fun here is to try not to take things personally. Some of us will not be unkind, you just need to find those folks and avoid the ones that bother you. If you want to chat, drop me a note anytime.

Post 11 by SilverLightning (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 8:56:07

Wipe your nose Bill, you've got a brown spot on it.

Post 12 by Damia (I'm oppinionated deal with it.) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 9:00:11

most all of us have been hurt at one time or another, and could have sympathy for that.
when you're vindictive, and demanding it really just makes us feel like maybe they were
justified. Perhaps they were not, but that's not the impression you're giving everybody.
put the shoe on the other foot. I would you feel if he put out your personal information,
and told us about his side of the story and what you did? .

Post 13 by beautiful girl (Veteran Zoner) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 10:52:51

All of you, please stop. I have a week hart. A very week hart. It can't take anymore of your bashing. Please go easy on my hart. And for your 411, I like this site. So don't tell me too leave. I'm staying. I have a right too be here as the next guy or girl.

Post 14 by sia fan bp (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 11:13:22

we'll tell you what we want. We'll tell you our opinion. nobody is gonna keep our mouths shut. Because we have a freedom of speech. don't we? I get it: you're hurting. but demanding sympathy is not something you do.

Post 15 by sia fan bp (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 11:15:59

Not trying to be rude or anything.

Post 16 by forereel (Just posting.) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 12:34:13

**goes easy on the heart.
You really should go get that guy that is your X that still loves to rub your feet, to rub them.
Extremely good for the heart mending.
Smile.
I believe we've been had, but that's okay.
Laughing.

Post 17 by sia fan bp (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 12:37:41

Wayne, you're hilarious! :p hahaha! yeah, get that ex Girl! Rub those feet to make you feel like a princess. :p

Post 18 by Liquid tension experiment (move over school!) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 13:45:57

if you post on here publicly, people are going to sy what they want. so the best thing I can tell you is, if you don't want people to say any old thing on your post, don't post.

Post 19 by beautiful girl (Veteran Zoner) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 14:50:01

I'll post when I want. I have a right to post.

Post 20 by Liquid tension experiment (move over school!) on Friday, 09-Dec-2016 14:55:08

you do that. but you can't get mad at people for saying what they want, if you can post what you want.

Post 21 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 1:50:57

Excuse me! None of us told you to leave, but if you are going to continue to be hurt, why bother? It doesn't make sense to me. I'm not sure how old you are, but honestly. we're trying to help and this is how you thank us. wow, please?! As damia says, everyone goes through hurtful periods in their life, it's not just you, trust me on that. I will say again, if you don't like what you read, don't post; simple.

Post 22 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 1:52:15

Please also learn to stop twisting words and only hurting yourself more in the process.

Post 23 by forereel (Just posting.) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 9:12:54

She's not leaving.

She has had us and is enjoying it.
She'll we all get our feet rubbed?

Post 24 by beautiful girl (Veteran Zoner) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 10:18:36

Guys, just stop please. I'm not leaving and I'm posting here if I want.

Post 25 by lalady (This site is so "educational") on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 10:32:38

I think Wayne has figured it out. She's entertaining us and we fell for it. My first hunch was exactly that, but then I changed my mind. At this point I don't think that it matters much any more which way it is. Whether she intends it or not, she is theatrical. I no longer find it entertaining though. If we stop responding, it's likely that she will lose interest in this topic and move on to the next one. And I do believe there will be a next one.

Post 26 by Imprecator (The Zone's Spelling Nazi) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 11:09:55

More like PitifulGirl.

Post 27 by turricane (happiness and change are choices ) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 13:11:59

.b.g., save the drama for your mama. if you want people's opinions then be prepared for them not to always agree. if you want people to agree with you make a recording and listen repeatedly.

Post 28 by AgateRain (Believe it or not, everything on me and about me is real!) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 13:17:18

No words for this, so lol

Post 29 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Saturday, 10-Dec-2016 17:59:14

I don't believe so. I think she is pretty jenuin but has a bit to learn about life.
But we're tried to help her and all she does is twist our words, so I'll be sure not to offer advice to her in the near future.

Post 30 by Ebony Flames (Zone BBS Addict) on Monday, 12-Dec-2016 11:45:08

Oh. My. God. For one thing lady, nobody (except me) is bashing you. From here on out, you have every right to hate me, because I am fully eliminating what was left of my filter toward you before I read this. By all means, run, run like there's no fucking tomorrow.
You were wronged. That's a given. But you did wrong. Plain. And. Simple. Then, after you do wrong, you proceed to blame everyone who is helping you, or trying to help you! As was said previously, this is a PUBLIC FORUM!!!!! Not everyone is going to agree with you!!!!!!! Another thing that was mentioned before: nobody is telling you to leave, though frankly if this is how you act when you get adverse responses, your loss wouldn't be a great one. I'll end by saying that you can't join up on a site like this, or anything online, and naively expect everyone to be your friend from day 1. Especially if you're going to yell at everyone who tries to give you advice. That's one very good way to get everyone to not care about you.

Post 31 by Liquid tension experiment (move over school!) on Monday, 12-Dec-2016 12:04:11

she isn't just like that here. Everywhere I have incountered this woman she acts this way. I think she may need some help from what I have gathered.

Post 32 by Ebony Flames (Zone BBS Addict) on Monday, 12-Dec-2016 12:41:48

She should know that acting like this just doesn't work at all.